When using Bindings for a Behaviour, you may use a x:Reference Binding expression.
Let's say you have a LongPressCommand in ViewModel which the ContentPage binds to. Then you may use x:reference Binding expression for the element like below,
First, set the name of the page to "this",
<ContentPage xmlns="http://schemas.microsoft.com/dotnet/2021/maui"
xmlns:x="http://schemas.microsoft.com/winfx/2009/xaml"
...
x:Name="this">
Use x:Reference to bind,
<DataTemplate>
...
<Grid.Behaviors>
<!--DOESN'T WORK-->
<toolkit:TouchBehavior LongPressCommand="{Binding BindingContext.LongPressCommand,source={x:Reference this}}"/>
</Grid.Behaviors>
</DataTemplate>
Please let me know if you have any question.