So it was really a very stupid mistake.
Our filestructure:
src/js/event-webcomponents.js
and in the package.js
the module
attribute was still pointing to the old name of the file: "module": "src/js/events-webcomponents.js",
classic typo...
Unfortunatley the typescript "Module not found: Error" message is not very helpfull in this case. But if you have a similar issue, it is worth to tripple check all your paths.