Seems to work with this spring-boot-maven-plugin configuration:

<plugin>
  <groupId>org.springframework.boot</groupId>
  <artifactId>spring-boot-maven-plugin</artifactId>
  <configuration>
    <docker>
      <host>${env.DOCKER_HOST}</host>
      <bindHostToBuilder>true</bindHostToBuilder>
    </docker>
  </configuration>
</plugin>

See: https://docs.spring.io/spring-boot/docs/3.0.x/maven-plugin/reference/htmlsingle/#build-image.examples.docker.podman