Ok - thanks to the jmcilhinney comment - it got me thinking. I found a solution - although it is not working exactly the way I want/need it to.
Now - this part was exactly what I was hoping to do - but it only gets calculated when I move the to the active record in the grid attached to the Master table. This makes sense - but not what was I was trying to do. I need to have the boolean value in the Table showing in the grid all the time - not just when I move to that record... I need to know which Master records have at least one Detail record with text in that field...
I guess I will have to create a calculated field and populate it in code when ever the table is loaded - or either the Master or Detail table are changed. Many thanks to those who took time to comment!