I used to have the exact same issue with 3.5 model. Upon some trial and error it appears that the use_auth_token argument might be already deprecated.
However I managed to resolve the issue by following steps here: https://stability.ai/learning-hub/setting-up-and-using-sd3-medium-locally
In particular I executed huggingface-cli login
from the console with the same virtualenv as my jupyter runtime. It asks you to paste the token to console and confirm a few details. Upon restarting the runtime a plain command went withnout any issues:
pipe = diffusers.StableDiffusion3Pipeline.from_pretrained(
"stabilityai/stable-diffusion-3.5-medium",
torch_dtype=torch.bfloat16)