If you would like to keep it simple, simply add two files to the dist folder (on server)

App.js

import("./dist/your-project-name/server/server.mjs");

web.config

<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<configuration>
    <system.webServer>
        <handlers>
            <add name="iisnode" path="app.js" verb="*" modules="iisnode" />
        </handlers>
        <rewrite>
            <rules>
                <rule name="DynamicContent">
                    <match url="/*" />
                    <action type="Rewrite" url="app.js"/>
                </rule>
            </rules>
        </rewrite>
    </system.webServer>
</configuration>