I have just done this using a template column and made the checkbox a Bootstrap formatted one:

<TemplateColumn Title="Is Enabled" Sortable="true" SortBy="GridSort<MessageTemplateModel>.ByDescending(x => x.IsEnabled)">
    <button type="button" class="btn @(context!.IsEnabled == true? "btn-primary" : "btn-outline-primary")"><i class="@(context!.IsEnabled == null? "fa-regular fa-square-minus" : context!.IsEnabled == true? "fa-solid fa-square-check" : "fa-regular fa-square")"></i></button>
</TemplateColumn>

This is how it looks: