The issue you're encountering stems from the token lacking permission to use the phone number associated with the specific object ID. I discovered that this error occurred because I was using the wrong Facebook app. I suggest verifying whether you're selecting the correct app in your configuration (App selection is at the top level corner of the Facebook developer page).
Regarding the inability to receive the webhook, here are a couple of potential causes to check:
Webhook Errors:
Token Permissions and Validation:
Addressing these areas should help resolve the issue.