so i got the solution

KeyEvent.KEYCODE_DPAD_UP -> {
                                    if (selectedRow > 0) {
                                        selectedRow--
                                        isUpFromList = false
                                    } else {
                                        scope.launch{
                                            isFocusOnListing = false
                                            isUpFromList = true
                                            delay(50)
                                            setFocusContinueWatch.freeFocus()
                                            setFocusOnWatchNow.requestFocus()
                                        }
                                    }

i just did the whole operation in a coroutine scope and added a 50milli delay