Keep things simple! - Remember Selenium is being used successfully by millions of others worldwide.
The main issues will always be your setup or configuration of Selenium or local network connection.
First remove all the chrome arguments you put and use the default and standard way of using Selenium without any options. Use ChatGPT or AI chat bot to give you a basic and simple script in python.
Then modify it to use against your website
Look at the error you get on the browser and if its network related due to certificates then you can add in the arguments for the browser. Again use ChatGPT or AI chat bot to give you this basic addition.
If that still doesn't work then you need to look at the LAN settings of your local machine and get it resolved. It could be due to corrupt or non-existing proxy settings