Several things need to be setup/configured:
Remote server : /etc/ssh/sshd_config: AllowTcpForwarding yes # need to allow this.
Bring up jupyter lab to listen to port say 8585: $ jupyter-lab --port 8585
local Mac/PC: terminal: set up a tunnel: $ ssh -L 8585:localhost:8585 remote_server
local Mac/PC: browser: https://localhost:8585
With this, the localhost:8585 traffic is routed through tunnel to remote_server sshd to remote_server port 8585 to remote_server process jupyter lab.
In remote_server, check if jupyter lab (or any process) is listening to port 8085:
$ netstat -an | grep LISTEN | grep 85