You were already on the right track and found the detailed configuration file but missed the global one. ;-)
.ansible-lint
does what you asked for: Exclude rules (tags) for all files.
There are other options of potential interest to you, like excluding specific paths from linting.
See the chapter Ansible-lint configuration in the docs.
Here's an example for skipping a few rules for all files:
# .ansible-lint
skip_list: # or 'warn_list' to print warnings
- experimental # all rules tagged as experimental
- var-spacing
- unnamed-task
HTH, Uwe