First of all, for Form1_load to be executed, you have to set the startup Object to be Form1.
It is intended to set in the GUI of the IDE (not by manually editing the module code ) in: Project | Properties | Application
be sure to set:
Moreover, your Form1_Load code Handles MyBase.Load, but I cannot see where Mybase is defined. So just to be sure:
When executing the program Form1 will be called, and the system will trigger Form1_load
BTW it's normal for functions called by system events to show 0 references (references are counted whan explicitally called by other pieces of code you write)