What I did is:

 private void Form1_Load(object sender, EventArgs e)
 {
     //add
    System.Reflection.PropertyInfo aProp = typeof(System.Windows.Forms.Control).GetProperty(
    "DoubleBuffered",
     System.Reflection.BindingFlags.NonPublic | System.Reflection.BindingFlags.Instance);
     
     aProp.SetValue(dataGridView1, true, null);