Update 2025: This problem still exists, but I'm building a comprehensive solution
The core issue remains - OpenAI's API is stateless by design. You must send the entire conversation history with each request, which:
Increases token costs exponentially with conversation length
Hits context window limits on long conversations
Requires manual conversation management in your code
Current workarounds:
Manual history management (what most answers suggest)
LangChain's ConversationBufferMemory (still sends full history)
OpenAI's Assistants API (limited, still expensive)
I'm building MindMirror to solve the broader memory problem:
Already working: Long-term memory across sessions
Remembers your projects, preferences, and goals so you don't re-introduce yourself or the way you tackle challenges/problems
Works with any AI API through MCP standard (also Claude Code, Windsurf, Cursor etc)
$7/month unlimited memories (free trial: 25 memories)
Coming soon: Short-term context management
Persistent conversation threads across AI models
Intelligent context compression to reduce token costs
Easy model switching while maintaining conversation state
My vision: Turn AI memory from a "rebuild it every time" problem into managed infrastructure. Handle both the immediate context issue (this thread) and the bigger "AI forgets who I am" problem.
Currently solving the long-term piece: https://usemindmirror.com
Working on the short-term context piece next. The memory problem is bigger than just conversation history - it's about making AI actually remember you and make adapt to your needs, preferences, wants etc.