Parental monitoring apps can see social media messages by using a combination of device permissions, accessibility features, and background data syncing. Once installed on a child's phone or computer, these apps request access to read notifications, capture screenshots, or keystrokes. With the device's accessibility to mirrors on-screen activity in real-time, allowing parents to view chats from platforms like WhatsApp, Facebook, Snapchat, Instagram, and Telegram.

Others sync stored app data, such as images, videos, and chat backups, directly to a secure online dashboard. In certain cases, monitoring apps like KidsGuard Pro, TheOneSpy, SecureKin, Bark, FonSee, and OgyMogy can capture social media activity through hidden screen recording or periodic snapshots, even if messages are deleted. These methods require appropriate permissions and, in many regions, parental consent if the monitored device belongs to a minor. This enables parents to detect harmful content, cyberbullying, or inappropriate interactions before they escalate into serious issues.